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Chat Rooms Riskier than Social Network?

 

Parents who are concerned about  sexual predators and harassment....

 

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Sex Offenders in your area

 

UK Mappa 2007 Annual Report  - find out the number of sex offenders in your area

 

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Stranger Danger

How great is the danger of “playing out” in an unsupervised public place?

 

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Online Safety

 

In real life you would protect your children, so why not protect them on the Internet?

Download software to protect your children from online sexual predators. Free Trials available...

 

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Top 25 Tips

 

Top 25 Child Safety Tips

 

 

Child Safety On the Net

Keep your children safe. Place the family computer in a common area, rather than a child's bedroom. Also, monitor their time spent online and the websites they've visited.

 

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Web Filtering

Learn more about Web Filtering and how it can help to keep your children safe from online predators.

 

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Cyber Bullying

Cyber Bullying is on the rise, using email, mobiles, text and instant messaging. Read the signs and stop it.

 

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Social Networking

The rise of MySpace, Bebo, Faceparty and other social networking sites has created a paradise for predators intent  on online grooming. If you are concerned about child safety ...

 

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Online Grooming

Online solicitation and 'grooming' are the most common forms of online child sexual abuse. 

 

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Children are most often abused by people they know

 

Almost 2/3 children are abused by people they know.  That's why it is absolutely critical whether a parent or educational authority to ensure that our children recognise the warning signs and know where to turn if they need help. 

 

Who abuses children?

It is not just strangers who abuse children - 95% of children calling ChildLine about sexual and physical abuse know the abuser. Abusers include parents, uncles, aunts, grandparents, teachers, family friends, and brothers and sisters.

The majority of abusers are men. They come from all classes, professions and backgrounds. Some women do abuse children, as do young people.

Warning Signs

 

Child exploitation takes many forms, including child prostitution, child pornography and pornography on the Internet. The vast majority of children do not get involved voluntarily; they are coerced, enticed or are utterly desperate.

 

 As a parent, educator or carer you need to be able to recognise the signs that a child might be a victim of child pornography or any other form of sexual exploitation. Child pornography has devastating effects on children, both on those who are exploited in the actual pictures and those who view it. Exploitative adults will encourage children to view child pornography, which leads them to see pornographic acts as acceptable and normal. This acceptance can make them more susceptible to being the subject of future sexual involvement.

 

Preventing children from being photographed or portrayed as the subject of pornography is difficult. Because abusers have no distinguishing characteristics, it is difficult to warn children about what an abuser is or looks like. But you can warn children about the abnormal actions of abusers and make sure that children know that they have the right to say NO. A responsible adult should be aware of the indicators of sexual and physical abuse and exploitation, such as those listed under ‘Warning Signs’ below.

 

Obviously there could be other explanations, but it is important to help your child no matter what the cause of the symptoms or the behaviour. For instance, you might become aware of and concerned about your child’s relationship with an older person (whom your child might describe as a friend, whether male or female) and/or frequent absences from home/school.

 

Local police and social services have small specialist teams who are specially trained to interview children with the support of their parents.

 

Read the NSPCC briefing on Sexual Abuse

 

WARNING SIGNS ACTION WHAT TO SAY PREVENTION CONTACTS
Changes in behaviour or mood, inappropriate sexual activity, sleep disturbances, bed-wetting and soiling, unexplained marks, problems at school, going missing, self harm. Indirect clues, like asking about sexual experiences or leaving pornographic material, diaries, or letters where they can be found.

If your child

confides in you,

support them. Tell

child protection,

youth services,

child abuse or

other appropriate

organisations.

If you think your

child has been

physically injured,

seek medical help.

Talk to your child

about what is

happening.

 

It is important that

your child feels that

you believe what she

or he is telling you.

Make it clear that

telling what

happened was the

right thing to do

and that you will

protect him or her

from further harm.

Know where your

child is; be familiar

with their friends

and daily activities.

Teach your child to

trust their own

feelings and assure

them that they have

a right to say NO to

what they sense

is wrong.

Listen carefully to

your child’s fears

and be supportive.

• Contact your local Police

• NSPCC

0808 800 5000

• Parentline Plus

0808 800 2222

• Childline

0800 1111

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Name and Shame illegal content

The Internet Watch Foundation  indicates that the USA and Russia between them appear to host the majority of illegal child images.

 

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Megans Law

How the US manages it's sex offenders.

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Are your children's photographs safe on the Internet?

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Nannies, Au Pairs and your children's safety...

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Child Tracking Tools

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Sex Offenders Register

How does it work? Do it's powers reach far enough?

 

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EU Guidelines to Prevent Sex Offenders from working with children.  

 

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Your children's safety on holiday.  Read the Australian report

 

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The opinion of Downing Street on paedophiles in your community

 

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Child Sex Tourism.  Each year, more than one million children are exploited in the global commercial sex trade.

 

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NSPCC Briefing on sexual abuse.

 

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Paedophile Ring uncovered in the UK

 

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